For most private high schools, the admission process includes an in-person interview. Why? Schools want to admit students who suit their program. An interview will also help you see if a school will fit your child. That makes it an invaluable tool as you research potential programs.

What Not to Do
As a parent, it may be tempting to "coach'' your child before their interview. You probably have good intentions-but don't do it! In trying to remember what they're supposed to say, a student may get overwhelmed. This in turn, can overwhelm you. It's better for everyone involved if you let your student be who they are.

Ways You Can Help
Have faith in your child and encourage them to do the same. Believe it or not, this is the single most effective way to help them prepare. Admission officers realize that the average student isn't a seasoned interview pro!

Put the student first
Your child should answer the questions, even if their responses aren't as perfect as you might want them to be.

Stay in the background
Admission officers know how to talk to students. Don't let your own anxiety overwhelm your child.

Have fun
For your child, this is a major first step toward independence, at least on a small scale. Enjoy it!

Some schools call for a parent interview in addition to the student session. At that time, say everything that's on your mind! But when it's your child's turn, exercise restraint (even if it's difficult) and allow them to shine.

Dates and Deadlines
Your application package should provide information on scheduling an appointment. If not, call the admission office ASAP. If there are a lot of students applying, there may be limited availability.

Finally, one last word of advice: Discuss appropriate dress before the day of the interview!